Wrapping it Up: November
The year is just flying by! I can hardly believe that December is upon us bringing with it the end of 2015! My oldest son will be turning 17 and I will be....um....well, older than I was last year!
My Writing World
This was the month of PiBoIdMo - the month where aspiring picture book writers check in with Tara Lazar's posts on her blog to see the day's guest writer's post to find inspiration on our craft and attempt to come up with at least 30 ideas for a picture book. You can check out my posts about the month starting with this one and ending with this one with a few in-between. Other than reaching most of my much smaller goals for PiBoIdMo this month (I didn't actually get to work on a manuscript), I did get a few other blog posts out and thus have done better than the last few months. But I really need to figure out a way to work on some manuscripts. Sigh. In time, I guess. If you want to check out some of the other blog posts, here they are:
My Commonplace Book - this is something that I hope will also improve my writing skills; it will certainly lead to more writing topics!
Book Review Wednesday: Ishtar's Odyssey - finally- the first book review I've done in ages! Hopefully I will get back to at least doing one a month....fingers crossed!
Foster The Good (actually posted at the end of October)
My Book World
It's been a slow month for reading. I really haven't been doing much of it at all. I didmanage to complete For The Children's Sake and worked here and there on The Living Page. And, if you've followed, I read all of Ishtar's Odyssey in time to do the blog post for Kregal Publications. It wasn't my favorite book by Arnold Ytreede, but still a quality book for family reading during the advent season.
Our Parenting/Homeschool World
This has also been a slow month for completion of homeschooling. I have mixed feelings about this. I have determined that it's okay to stretch out a week of schooling (according to the Ambleside Online 'curriculum' that I'm using) into two or more weeks...but I'm not okay with days going by in which we don't do much of anything for school. Unfortunately there were a few stretches like that this month. I don't necessarily think that was a bad thing, but I don't want it to turn into habit. SO - I just need to juggle this around in my head and figure out how to still get a half hour or hour of school into most of our days, even when really busy.
I've also been thinking over twaddle vs. living books as I mentioned in some of my PiBoIdMo posts (yes, even my Writing World intersects with our Homeschooling World). I'm thinking more and more these days while there can be a huge difference between twaddle and living books, there can also be some overlap. What's more- perhaps rather than focusing on eliminating 'twaddle' completely, it's just more important to make sure that better quality Living Books make up the majority of your child's reading time.
Homeschooling aside, I've struggled with parenting in general. Nothing surprising. We ALL struggle when it comes to a method of how to get our children to be obedient without killing their spirit or doing it in a non-loving manner. My son is struggling with following directions without doing his 'growling' thing or actually attempting to push me or protesting by putting his face right in mine with the dirtiest face a five year old can give. We read recently, my husband and I, Peaceful Parents Happy Kids by Dr. Laura Markham. We believe entirely in her theory but putting it into practice isn't always easy. His behaviors definitely push my buttons whether I recognize his need for guidance in how to display feelings or not and , well, it's a challenge. So we are working on that. This afternoon was a difficult task - telling him no, he can not go to the neighbor's house as his behavior after church was not of the quality to earn privileges such as that. While it was difficult, it was manageable, but only because I was able to prepare myself for it. I knew , getting into the car at church, exactly what was going to happen when we got home and I had 20 minutes to prepare my own set of mind for carrying through. It's not so easy when a situation presents itself necessitating an immediate response when we are needing to go somewhere or get a list of things done in a short amount of time. Those cases don't always go the way I'd like. But I'm sure I'm not the only one in that boat, am I?
Our Food and Health World
My husband continues his health goals in losing weight and becoming more conditioned. Have I mentioned since doing the Whole30 during Lent this past year and sticking to a paleo eating style (at least 95% of the time) he has lost over 100 pounds? The man is amazing as far as I'm concerned! While I used to be the one doing the attempts at motivation, he is the one trying to motivate me to start exercising now....sigh... the vision is there....finding the time to do it and everything else needs some work! I'm at least starting to walk a bit more again...if only I can figure out how to keep it up during the winter! I have a HUGE aversion to cold weather!
This month we started the Nativity fast that is practiced by Orthodox Christians. I'll admit, we've never been ones to follow the nativity fast as well as we do the Great Lent fast. But this year, my husband decided he wanted to do another Whole30 for the fast. While my love for sugar was reluctant, I assented to his wish....well, for the most part. He's doing a whole30 which I help with by keeping completely compliant for the meals (with a few minor exceptions on Thanksgiving) and I'm doing my own modified whole30- while not whole30 approved, is certainly a step up for me as I remain about 95% paleo, I'm not adding sugar to my teas, keeping my meals whole30 compliant, sticking to non-processed snacks for the most part (at least at home) and attempting to increase my water intake. And I'm doing my best to keep Wednesdays and Thursdays as days we not only observe the Whole30 rules, but stick to abstinence of meat products as well in accordance to the Orthodox fasting rules.
Our Faith World
Again, the nativity season is upon us. I'm trying hard to keep up with my morning bible time, adding an Orthodox Advent Study to my materials. I purchased this last year through Sylvia Leontaritis at Orthodoxmom.com. Unfortunately, I never got past the first week last year. This year is still a struggle to keep up but I am sticking with it thus far. I have actually learned a few extra things about the Theotokos I hadn't known before and I always like reading passages from the Old Testament that were prophecies of the birth of Christ.
We were disappointed to know that my husband has been scheduled to work both the nights of Christmas Even AND the night of Christmas Day. He will be forced into missing both church services. It's a struggle to not want to pout and think ill thoughts of those in charge of his schedule.... but we are trying to stay positive and be grateful he has a job and, really, other than church - which is of course the most important part of celebrating the holy day- we can do the other celebrations any time...and have planned to do just that. Yes, Santa is such a NICE man, that he's decided to wait a few days to visit- so we can all open presents together.... cool dude, isn't he?
Other Parts of My World
Hmmm....what haven't I covered? My son's girlfriend came up from Florida for a few days and visited. She was able to watch him in one of his last football games of the season. It was really nice to have her here. Of course, it was really sad to watch his sadness in the days following her trip back home. But they are able to at least count the days to the next visit which isn't terribly far off...though I'm sure it seems a terribly long time to them.
Thanksgiving was spent here at home as it usually is. We had a quiet day- my husband worked the night before so he slept for a number of hours during the day after he came home and prepped the turkey and chicken (long story that one). The kids and I lounged in the living room watching the parade and dog show. It was nice that I didn't have much cooking to do since I was inspired to do the majority of it the day before. THIS is something that I plan on doing again! I was sooooo thankful for a low stress day on Thanksgiving!
The days continue to get shorter and a bit colder though I can't complain about temperature just yet, especially for October. And we've found an excellent 'handy man' to help us with cleaning gutters and other household/outside tasks that makes prepping for season changes all the more easier. We also installed a new pellet furnace in the basement and a pellet stove insert into our fireplace. Between the two, we expect our electric bill and the hassles of last year's woodstove to be a thing of the past. Time will tell but we are hopeful and feeling warmer already.
It's now 4:08 in the afternoon as I write this and I can see the color changes of the sky in the west already. This indicates to me as the day is nearing an end that I really should be thinking about ending this post and starting the evening meal. So, until next time- take care and drop in and say hi sometime!